The card for today is Strength. Sometimes the holidays bring out the best in us and sometimes they bring out the beast in us. So have compassion. You are not always on your best behavior, no matter how hard you try.
Sometimes you are triggered to behave badly. It’s called being authentic, if you keep in mind that your authentic self is not always your best self. Another word for being authentic is being human.
See the humanity in others even when they are behaving badly. Love and kindness is often the way to turn the situation around. And if not, maintaining your core strength of love will at least keep you serene and sane.